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Gabor & Daniel Maté: Relationship Traps for Parents & Adult Children
The unique relationship between parent and child is incredibly important - but can be challenging well into adulthood. In this excerpt from their workshop, Starting Fresh, Gabor and Daniel explain how we often fall into “prototypes” - pre-set roles or personas we default to when interacting with our parents or adult children. These prototypes get in the way of authentic connection. Watch more of this workshop for free at onecommune.com/startfresh.
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Guided Meditation: How To Live Fully | Ram Dass
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We don't really let our hearts go wide open because we fear it would all break. And because we armor our hearts from the suffering, we cut ourselves off from the life juice we need to be living Spirit. This is an excerpt from Explorations in Consciousness - a series of 10 audio-visual journeys to dissolve the dreariness of reality and spark your inner transformation. Watch for free at www.oneco...
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How I Revived NFL’s Aaron Rodgers! Pioneering Therapist's Secrets to Mobility, Healing & Living Long
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How I Revived NFL’s Aaron Rodgers! Pioneering Therapist's Secrets to Mobility, Healing & Living Long
Trauma's Toll: Expert Breaks Down Cortisol's Influence on Health
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  • @victoriaalercia-casellacou1048

    There is so much necessary healing work for making a family dynamic healthier for the next generation

  • @NOWmaryme
    @NOWmaryme Час назад

    Super helpful.

  • @lisainberea
    @lisainberea 3 часа назад

    You state we need people, what if we don’t have people?

  • @deanbardos1950
    @deanbardos1950 5 часов назад

    That's why they said " it takes a village". Tearing our relations apart was a tactic. Division has ALWAYS been a tatic, its human history and human nature.

  • @chellerounds7608
    @chellerounds7608 17 часов назад

    He had it covered. All of us were a tribe who cared for and about one another. That's it. 🙂

  • @Darkpill-2
    @Darkpill-2 18 часов назад

    Stop the drinking, drugs and gambling and talk’ will fair much better. A lot of people come here with far less and less than you.

  • @angelogatdor6277
    @angelogatdor6277 19 часов назад

    Thank you for sharing, Iam 5yrs sober now, Addiction it’s a disease but none addict peoples don’t understand?

  • @angelogatdor6277
    @angelogatdor6277 19 часов назад

    I never knew my addiction was really bad until I head the rock bottom

  • @420.........
    @420......... 23 часа назад

    Low effort content

  • @pedroivantaveraferreira3037
    @pedroivantaveraferreira3037 День назад

    One of the main reasons I did a vasectomy as soon as I was legally allowed (25yo). I can't imagine how to guide healthily dealing with anger. I can't imagine how to explain the difference between courage and bravery and how to nourish both

  • @terraflow__bryanburdo4547
    @terraflow__bryanburdo4547 День назад

    As far as the cross country runners: their diet is extremely high in carbs and oils and low in protein and saturated fat. Their diet is as much of an aging factor as their overtraining. Im my 20s I was a marathoner and felt 80; in my 60s I am a sprinter and feel 25 💪

  • @Dolphin_457
    @Dolphin_457 День назад

    I love Dr. Lustig's lectures and videos. He is brilliant 👏 and an expert in the evils of sugar and fructose, insulin, insulin resistance, ultra-processed carbohydrates, fats, metabolic syndrome and all its related diseases such as diabetes, hypertension, CVD, insulin resistance, dementia, immune diseases, kidney disease and cancer, and he says that all diseases start with Mitochondrial dysfunction at the level of liver cells, which cause a fatty-liver, which cause insulin-resistance which in turn leads to all the degenerative diseases mentioned above. I read Dr. Lustig's two books: Metabolical, his best-seller FAT Chance, and watched his best lecture, Sugar : The Bitter Truth. Thank you, Dr. Lustig, you are saving lives.

  • @markthornton504
    @markthornton504 День назад

    Morals of society can make this job of raising kids harder or easier, think about it!! In a world that satan has all filled with lies and deception it just makes our job of raising kids much harder, there is a sickness out there that needs direction and purpose, God gives us that and Jesus offers us the path!! Praying to Jesus to guide us and give us the wisdom to see the darkness and shine a light on it to destroy it!

  • @kevintewey1157
    @kevintewey1157 День назад

    In this way, capitalism did not bring freedom.It split up the family and then it went further

  • @wmorris89
    @wmorris89 День назад

    Thank you so much for making this. The home group podcast is worth checkin out if you like to laugh.

  • @user-si8vt5gv1h
    @user-si8vt5gv1h День назад

    My mom wasn't an educated woman (from the country in the '20s), but she picked the info up somewhere...she taught it was important to have a yellow & green veggie every meal. We also had potatoes often. I feel she gave her kids a headstart in our health with food from our garden.

  • @Katfrith222
    @Katfrith222 2 дня назад

    ❤❤❤

  • @felixaudet5860
    @felixaudet5860 2 дня назад

    It seems like God created covid to force humans to face their challenges and avoid spiritual bypass. We're all a nodes on the grid of Oneness, and there are so many coping mechanisms that humans are using to avoid facing this fact.

  • @kelleeweber3933
    @kelleeweber3933 2 дня назад

    This man is great. GET THE WORD OUT PEEPS.

  • @8dio850
    @8dio850 2 дня назад

    Super amazing woman.. She is becoming more and more interesting the more i listen from her the higher her level and status to my mind I think Robert lustig and Dr Casey r the best

  • @julieb8668
    @julieb8668 2 дня назад

    ? Assume u meant to say validating

  • @livingwai
    @livingwai 2 дня назад

    Oooooo

  • @heathermcclean7408
    @heathermcclean7408 2 дня назад

    Thank you for sharing this. I share these types of conversations with my brothers who each have a lot of anger and sadness towards our parents (and for good reason) -- I worked through most of my trauma years ago... they didn't. Now that they have their own children and are riding the waves of marriage, work, life, etc. and are seeking healing without asking for healing. Conversations like these can be shared and received in non-intrusive, non-presumptuous, and explorative grounds. Again, thank you for posting such content.

  • @user-dq2wx9hz3u
    @user-dq2wx9hz3u 2 дня назад

    She still not a healthy person. Her nerves function to her eyes is still not right, still on spectical.

  • @greentree5448
    @greentree5448 3 дня назад

    How does this address what your nervous system does all by itself? I mean, a traumatized nervous system simply "reacts", sans "thoughts".

  • @masaf6364
    @masaf6364 3 дня назад

    Is it ok to wash my broccoli sprouts with vinegar?

  • @Cmyangels106
    @Cmyangels106 3 дня назад

    OMG! Story of triumph!!! Just the piece of the puzzle I have been searching for to reenter my life and society in general. Thank you David.

  • @joyjones6927
    @joyjones6927 3 дня назад

    I don’t know if it’s my ego, or an addiction to negative thinking or depression or a lack or self-awareness or a spiritual stronghold but I couldn’t change my way of thinking even if I wanted to. #cepv #IMustWin

  • @elgrannido156
    @elgrannido156 3 дня назад

    This is gold for anyone. Thank you both so much and thank you Commune.

  • @Calmwithsounds
    @Calmwithsounds 3 дня назад

    If you were considering purchasing from her company don’t. First off their customer support is horrid-when I received damaged items they called me a liar to avoid a loss on their end. And their health claims are not backed up. A panel of the National Advertising Review Board (NARB) found that ENERGYbits Inc. (EBits) failed to provide proper and/or acceptable substantiation for health-related and environmental claims for the company’s ENERGYbits Spirulina Algae (Spirulina Tablets) and recommended that such claims be discontinued. They are just an overpriced product that can be purchased in better quality from different company’s, which is what I suggest.

  • @wanderingfree149
    @wanderingfree149 3 дня назад

    western medicine has been more wrong than it has been right

  • @monabommarito7126
    @monabommarito7126 4 дня назад

    Love Gabor.

  • @travisclymer2517
    @travisclymer2517 4 дня назад

    Yes I am powerless and my life is totally unmanageable. I believe in God and he can restore me to sanity. I do not want to take meds, where do I go from here brother? 😞😭🙏 Thank you dude. I miss my family so much!

  • @pattyhoge1725
    @pattyhoge1725 4 дня назад

    I just love the Matés! And also Aaron!

  • @cathysnaturalwellnessandbe10
    @cathysnaturalwellnessandbe10 4 дня назад

    all this is good but you midas well be alone doing it on your own bc no one is where you are

  • @chuckheppner4384
    @chuckheppner4384 4 дня назад

    "The more we idealize the past and refuse to acknowledge our childhood sufferings, the more we pass them on unconsciously to the next generation. The reason why parents mistreat their children has less to do with character and temperament than with the fact that they were mistreated themselves and were not permitted to defend themselves. The achievement of freedom is hardly possible without the felt mourning. This ability to mourn, i.e, to give up the illusion of a happy childhood, can restore vitality and creativity if a person is able to experience that he was never loved as a child for what he was, but for his achievements, success and good qualities. And that he sacrificed his childhood for this love, this will shake him very deeply." Alice Miller “Human communication, 'as the saying goes, is a clash of symbols' it covers a multitude of signs. But it is more than media and messages, information and persuasion; it also meets a deeper need and serves a higher purpose. Whether clear or garbled, tumultuous or silent, deliberate or fatally inadvertent, communication is the ground of meeting and the foundation of community. It is, in short, the essential human connection. Unfortunately, we-especially in the United States-have become increasingly mechanized, so that today we feel very strongly that if we can take anything out of human hands and especially out of the human heart and put it through a machine, we have made progress. Indeed, we flatter ourselves that we can make machines that think like human beings, while not always pausing to reflect that in the process we have also succeeded in making millions of human beings who can feel and think like machines. It is a sorry reflection It neither kills outright nor inflicts apparent physical harm, yet the extent of its destructive toll is already greater than that of any war, plague, famine, or natural calamity on record - and its potential damage to the quality of human life and the fabric of civilized society is beyond calculation. For that reason this sickness of the soul might well be called the 'Fifth Horseman of the Apocalypse.' Its more conventional name, of course, is dehumanization. The measure of man's humanity is the extent and intensity of his love for mankind. In our society the elderly are regarded as biodegradable and superfluous, instead of what they really represent: a biological elite who, with weathered wisdom, have much to offer the world The behavioral trait most frequently associated with the long-lived is placidity. The whole of life is a journey toward youthful old age, toward self-contemplation, love, gaiety, and, in a fundamental sense, the most gratifying time of our lives. . . . "Old age" should be a harvest time when the riches of life are reaped and enjoyed, while it continues to be a special period for self-development and expansion. All education should be directed toward the refinement of the individual's sensibilities in relation not only to one's fellow humans everywhere, but to all living things whatsoever. The indifference, callousness, and contempt that so many people exhibit toward animals is evil first because it results in great suffering towards animals, and second because it results in an incalculably great impoverishment of human spirit. The majority of people believe in incredible things which are absolutely false. The majority of people daily act in a manner prejudicial to their general well-being. The only measure of what you believe is what you do. If you want to know what people believe, don't read what they write, don't ask what they believe, just observe what they do. The family unit is the institution for the systematic production of mental illness. The family is the basis of society. As the family is, so is the society, and it is human beings who make a family-not the quantity of them, but the quality of them. Any form of corporal punishment or 'spanking' is a violent attack upon another human being's integrity. The effect remains with the victim forever and becomes an unforgiving part of his or hier personality--a massive frustration resulting in a hostility which will seek expression in later life in violent acts towards others. The sooner we understand that love and gentleness are the only kinds of called-far behavior towards children, the better. The child, especially, learns to become the kind of human being that he or she has experienced. This should be fully understood by all caregivers. The idea of "race" represents one of the most dangerous myths of our time. The parallel between antifeminism and race prejudice is striking. The same underlying motives appear to be at work, namely fear, jealousy, feelings of insecurity, fear of economic competition, guilt feelings, and the like. Many of the leaders of the feminist movement in the nineteenth-century United States clearly understood the similarity of the motives at work in antifeminism and race discrimination and associated themselves with the anti slavery movement. Without love, intelligence is dangerous; without intelligence, love is not enough. Intellect without humanity is not good enough...what the world is suffering from at the present time is not so much an overabundance of intellect as an insufficiency of humanity. ... the main principle by which human beings must guide the future course of their development is love." Ashley Montagu "All great spirituality is about what we do with our pain. If we do not transform our pain, we will transmit it to those around us. The two Virtues of Equanimity and Compassion become more available to the person whose ego-shell has been smashed-either by great suffering or by great love-or by both." Richard Rohr “The essence of the Torah is the command: Do not do unto others as you should not want them to do unto you-the rest is commentary. Go and study.” Erich Fromm, You Shall Be as Gods "Do not be daunted by the enormity of the world’s grief. Do justly, now. Love mercy, now. Walk humbly, now. You are not obligated to complete the work, but neither are you free to abandon it." The Talmud “All of life is education and everybody is a teacher and everybody is forever a pupil.” Abraham Maslow

  • @MadonnaGrogan
    @MadonnaGrogan 4 дня назад

    Agree with bad feelings, just feel them, n they pass

  • @jonjonlovers1982
    @jonjonlovers1982 4 дня назад

    💗🙏💗

  • @jasonbachelor604
    @jasonbachelor604 4 дня назад

    You need a 12 step " journey" to rid yourself of 12 step cult behaviour

  • @shamrock245
    @shamrock245 4 дня назад

    This world is so fxxked I hate society, corruption, I grew up in a culture of alcohol, then tried cola, now I can't escape , I know the answer is run away and live away from today's life...

  • @TaffyAllen9
    @TaffyAllen9 5 дней назад

    In the Baha’i Faith Abdu’l Bahá “When religion, shorn of its superstitions, traditions, and unintelligent dogmas, shows its conformity with science, then will there be a great unifying, cleansing force in the world which will sweep before it all wars, disagreements, discords and struggles -- and then will mankind be united in the power of the Love of God. ‘Abdu’l-Bahá, Paris Talks, p. 146

  • @TaffyAllen9
    @TaffyAllen9 5 дней назад

    Bruce is awesome! I would love him to comment on Our blood is holographic… what’s happening in the body shows up in the blood, Dr Harvey Bigelson. Also Dr Donald Epstein epienergics would be great guest!

  • @JC-bu8yi
    @JC-bu8yi 5 дней назад

    Well stated and explained. Spot on.

  • @RashiChoudhary-qt8co
    @RashiChoudhary-qt8co 5 дней назад

    Felt like 5 minutes 💛

  • @rw4754
    @rw4754 5 дней назад

    Who was that drunk Irish Poet who said, "During the dark night of the soul it is always 3am."

  • @NeilBarley
    @NeilBarley 5 дней назад

    So sprouts 🌱 are muy bueno but this white jacket is eating oatmeal… 🧐 Heard oatmeal is out?

    • @Starcraftghost
      @Starcraftghost 2 дня назад

      Thankfully, he exists. We knew about the benefits of broccoli sprouts because of this white jacket.

  • @joyjones6927
    @joyjones6927 6 дней назад

    The barriers are in my thinking, judgement, thoughts and spiritual strongholds. So how come he rejected me romantically? Aren’t the barriers and rejection coming from his thoughts, judgements, evaluation, pride, prejudice and ego?! 🐣#cepv #IMustWin

  • @arcticauroras9627
    @arcticauroras9627 6 дней назад

    I suppose you hit on it. Ramani mahirshi did teach you

  • @arcticauroras9627
    @arcticauroras9627 6 дней назад

    How did u know

  • @arcticauroras9627
    @arcticauroras9627 6 дней назад

    Marishi taught me